If you happen to find yourself feeling old and washed up, chances are everyone else out there will too. Just because your booty isn’t as taut as it once was and your breasts have started sagging, that’s no excuse to begin putting yourself down. At some point in time, you need to realize that aging is a beautiful thing, and being 20-something isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.
Start living! Age is only in the mind. Take some advice from Betty White. At 91 years old, she says she’s never felt more attractive.
They say that every man ends up being with someone else’s sloppy seconds. Why? Because it only takes one horrible relationship to break a woman almost-beyond-repair. But if you want to look on the bright side, broken hearts can be mended.
Even if you are a little hesitant to open yourself up to a new relationship, it’s worth the effort. Magical things happen to women who embrace the unknown.
‘We accept the love we think we deserve,” says Stephen Chbosky. We couldn’t have said it better ourselves.
Why do you continue choosing partners who treat you poorly? You are a smart, beautiful, and incredible individual who deserves to be given 110 percent. If you’re in an unhealthy relationship with someone who is only half-vested, and approaches the relationship with a “me”, not “we” mentality, it’s time to stop making excuses and move on!
It’s time to stop perusing for your soul mate during restaurant happy hour. Seriously. Stop. Actually, you’re probably better off ending your search altogether.
It’s important to remember that love simply…happens. It’s highly unlikely that you’re going to meet the man of your dreams after taking a few body shots while drowned in disco lighting. Sure, you may end up with an incredible one night stand, but that’s about it.
So, you want to be a relationship… but you don’t exactly know what you want. Maybe you don’t even want what you think you want.
Do you like being dominant or do you prefer to be the submissive one? Love doesn’t always occur the way you might expect it to. Figure out what you want and go out and get it.
Feeling lost? Maybe it’s time for some deep self-reflection or some daily yoga and meditation. When it comes to relationships, if you have no clue where to start, or where you’re going, chances are you won’t be getting very far.
Take a moment to collect yourself and find your balance before embarking on the journey of love.
You haven’t been on a date in months. You’re tired. Stressed out. And all you want is to hang around in your pajamas all day watching Sex in the City and eating take-out Chinese food. But do you really think you’re going to land a worthwhile gent this way? News flash: It’s not going to happen.
Take some pride in your appearance and put a little effort into exuding confidence. Underneath that tangled hair, oily skin, and lazy wardrobe may just be the breathtaking and desirable woman someone has been waiting their entire life for.